Message in a Bottle

Wow it has been a long time since I posted anything here. I do check once in a while when someone posts a comment or so.

I know that there are a lot of people out there who have posted some unkind things to some of my opinions and honestly I’m glad they did because that is what the internet is all about.

Today’s post is something different however. While on vacation with my family in Denmark this year I was fortunate enough to find an actual message in a bottle. It was on the last day of our vacation and before we left we decided that we wanted to take one last walk along the beach. The weather had been stormy for the last two days so we didn’t spend much time there. While walking along with my wife, kids and in-laws I was looking down at all the mess that the sea had spread along the beach. I saw a plastic drink bottle laying in the mess and decided to do the right thing and throw it away. When I picked it up I noticed that there was a paper in the bottle. I was pretty excited about this, as I had always wondered what it was like to find a message in a bottle. I was also prepared to be disappointed because I figured it most likely wasn’t very old and that the person who sent it probably threw it in the water only a couple of days before. How wrong I was. Read the rest of this entry »

United Airlines — Greed At Its Most Disgusting

As you all know recently I lost my father to an unexpected heart attack. We are still grieving our loss. What you might not know was that my father was planning on visiting us in Germany for the first time since I made the decision to leave the United States. This to me was a big step in our relationship as I felt that he finally accepted my decision.

When he finally decided to come visit I jumped on the internet with my wife so that we could get tickets for my parents. As my parents are not on the internet it might be more expensive and more difficult for them to get flights themselves. My wife and I are big travelers and have gotten the hang of most things with dealing with airlines and getting reservations. I say most things because we were soon to be seriously surprised and shocked.

We ordered our tickets over Opodo.de which is an online discount travel agent. We’ve used them plenty of times in the past without problems and may actually continue to use them. However, we have never used them to book flights for someone not living in Germany before. We were a little disappointed that the travel insurance that opodo.de offered was only valid for people who live in Europe. My parents living in the United States would not be available for this insurance. We went ahead and ordered the tickets anyway thinking “What could happen?”. Well it is obvious now what could happen. My father died and we had to deal with canceling his ticket (my mother will still travel to see us in April so that is nice at least). My wife, being the native German speaker, dealt with Opodo.de and they were really helpful when it came to telling us what we needed to do, and even called to make sure that they were only to cancel my father’s ticket. They were to take care of dealing with the airlines about getting some of our money back. We both knew not to hope to get the entire amount we paid for my father’s ticket but at least a good amount. What we received was 60 Euros out of approximately 490 Euros paid. The only excuse we received from Opodo.de was that the airline kept 383 Euros of the price. The itinerary that my parents (and mother still) will use had a flight from Knoxville (TN) to Dulles International (MD) then from Dulles International to Munich (GERMANY) and then back again by the same route. For three of the four flights they would be using United Airlines. So it is pretty obvious who kept our 300+ Euros from the ticket. We were shocked that an airline would be so greedy as to keep practically the entire cost of the flight (remember this is February and the flight isn’t until April meaning they have plenty of time to fill that seat for the FULL price again) from us when the only reason we canceled in the first place was because the person who was to use the ticket is dead.

These greedy bastards at United Airlines obviously can only think of the bottom line which to them is “Hey we can keep most of the full price of this ticket and charge someone else the full price for the same seat! Ain’t that great we get paid twice for one seat and screw the poor family who have lost their loved one!”.

Now I’m not a rich man. My wife and I rent our apartment. We’ve been saving up for the time when my parents decided to come visit so that we could help defray the costs of their visit so that they wouldn’t be too burdened by the costs themselves. I really felt as though I’ve been kicked while I’m down by this airline. Therefore I can promise you all this and I hope you share this with others, “Neither I nor any member of my family will ever again use United Airlines after this trip for my mother. We will never again use an airline who treats their customers with such disdain and disrespect.” You can quote me on that.

Now you might ask yourself why haven’t I written United Airlines about this. I have and here is what I said.

Dear United Airlines,
I must say that I am extremely displeased with the way the cancellation of my father’s ticket was handled.

In January we booked a flight for my parents to come and visit us in Germany where we live. This was to be their first time visiting us and the first time they were to see their new grandson. After receiving the tickets from our booking agent (OPODO) my father died of a sudden an unexpected heart attack. We of course wished to cancel his ticket and his ticket alone. We knew we should get some money back from the cancellation and knew that we wouldn’t get the entire amount back. What was returned to us was approximately 60 Euros with a comment from OPODO that the rest of the over 400 Euro ticket cost were held by the airline. As for most of the trip my parents would be taking United Airlines it is not hard to figure out who kept the money.

As we booked over OPODO for my parents who do not live in Europe we had no way of insuring their travel, which would have protected us from you. This we are taking up with OPODO directly about their limiting the insurance. This does not excuse your actions.

We are extremely disappointed at the show of heartless corporate greed on the part of your airline, during a time of morning for our family. The money that we were hoping to get back, again not expecting the entire sum, was to be used to make my mother’s stay a little nicer. However, those plans are also now in ruins thanks to your disgusting display of greed.

I will make this known to everyone that neither I nor any member of my family will ever again use your airline. I will be warning everyone I know in as public a place as I can find about your airline’s horrible business practice.

I know that you will cowardly hide behind some contractual or terms and agreement issue that your corporate lawyers have concocted to allow you to charge twice for the same seat when a cancellation is made, and the comments of a single person won’t phase you in the slightest. However, I feel that I must explain to everyone why I am so angry with the way I and my family have been handled by your company.

Sincerely
Jason Reed

I haven’t received an answer yet. I’m doubtful that I ever will. At least I got it off my chest and now that I’ve posted this in the most public place I could I’ll leave it at that.

EDIT!!!

Ok so I can’t leave it at that. Apparently there are a lot of greed issues with United Airlines. Check these links out:

Now some of those links point to dealing with their own workers and how the executives are acting with the company’s money, but there are few with how they are treating their passengers. So I leave you with this question:

Do you really want to support an airline who treats their customer’s so poorly, and yet charge you such high prices? For my part the answer is No, and I never will again.

Going out of town.

I’ll be visiting my mother for the next week to help her sort everything out since my father’s death.

I’ll post something when I get back.

Death in the Family.

Last night was informed by my cousin that my Father had died. I’m still a bit shocked by it all. There was so much planned and now things have changed. I have guilt and I don’t know why. I’m worried about my Mother, and how she’s taking it. I’m worried that if something happens to her how will I find out.

Maybe part of the reason I’m feeling guilty is that it was my decision to live in Europe away from my family. The consequences being that when there is a Family emergency there’s not much I can do. Some of the guilt probably comes from the fact that my Father hadn’t gotten a chance to see his youngest grandson, mostly because I was too lazy to get the pictures printed and sent in a timely manner. Also maybe I’m feeling guilty because I’m not there for my Mom, and wasn’t there for my Dad these past twelve years since I left home.

To have death hit so closely is really an eye opener. It makes me think about my own mortality and health. My father was 62 or would be this year. That is too young to die in this day of medical miracles. I know that my father wasn’t a “Healthy” man. He ate too much, he was overweight, he didn’t stay fit. Now I look at my own lifestyle and wonder if I’m healthy enough. I don’t want my children to have a surprise phone call in the middle of the night.

My wife and I are discussing our options on what we can or need to do in this case. I have no idea right now, I’m feeling kind of lost in it all.

Really Unhappy Teen Looses Car Because Booze Found Inside.

He didn’t loose it because the police found it either. Worse he got caught by his Mom. So she’s sold the car. Love the way she wrote the ad in the newspaper too.

OLDS 1999 Intrigue. Totally uncool parents who obviously don’t love teenage son, selling his car. Only driven for three weeks before snoopy mom who needs to get a life found booze under front seat. $3,700/offer. Call meanest mom on the planet.

Why can’t more parents be this responsible.

Article Here

Mexican Boy Glued to Bed

Before you get your pants in a bind the boy did it himself. He didn’t want to go back to school after Christmas so he glued his hand to the bed so he could continue watching cartoons.

I wonder why I never thought of that ;)

 Here’s the article at the BBC

The Miracle of Birth

Today at 13:41 (1:41 pm for you non-European/non-military types) I became a father for the second time. Our second child, Vincent Josef,  was born naturally and without an epidural by my very strong and brave wife. I have a hard time deciding which was more moving the birth of our first child (William Lee 29.11.2004) or this birth. Both were so wonderful to see and the fact that I was there for both makes me very happy.

What my wife and I noticed is how much is different between Vincent and his older brother. William’s birth was rather fast for a first child (approximately 8 hours) where as Vincent put his mother through around 12 hours of labor. William was rather small weighing only about 3000 grams. Vincent is 3700 grams and is a bit longer as well. William had very little hair and Vincent has lots of black curly hair on his head. You would think that they weren’t related. However, you can see lots of traits on Vincent that come from my family. He has my family frown (we don’t have a nice neutral look in my family we all have a bit of a frown William has it and so does Vincent) the monkey toes and large feet that come with my family. He’s obviously my son but he is so unlike his older brother that you can almost assume that they are going to have completely opposite personalities.

I’m really a happy man right now.

iPod Nano Video Vs. Kaleidescope

So there’s a new commercial on German TV for the iPod Nano now with video. My wife had a wonderful comment about it, “A kaleidescope is cheaper and is basically the same thing, dancing colored dots”.

I can agree with that I guess.

Disappointment in Drachenwald

We recently traveled to the Kingdom University event for Drachenwald. We were full of hopeful excitement since many of our old Shiremates of previous years would be attending and we were really looking forward to seeing them again, as well as taking some classes. This was the first Kingdom level event we have attempted with our son. I knew from previous events that the Kingdom had Youth Minister to assist in ensuring that children also have a place to participate and have fun. I of course figured this would be the case here. The event had approximately 140 people registered and about 10% were children under 12. You kind of figure that someone would have thought of this, but sadly no. There was really nothing for small children to do at this event, and sitting through 1 to 2 hour classes for small children is just not feasible. The only place where our son could play and stay warm (it was pretty cold outside) was in the sleeping room which we shared with seven other people. Now, you would think that this would be ok because these people “SHOULD” be going to classes. However, several of these people wished either to sleep in or to take a long nap before court and feast. So this left us with pretty much no where we could take our son. Now, we weren’t looking for someone to watch our child for us, just a place where he could be a child. Our question: Where the hell was the Youth Minister, or a deputy, or someone to say “Hey we should do something for the children!” Sadly like most in the SCA (at least as I’ve seen it) everyone only thought of things for the adults. I had one mother say to me on her arrival, “I hope my children stay asleep so I can be an adult for a while.”, and this coming from a Royal Peer.

Now if the family-unfriendliness were the only problem we felt then I probably wouldn’t be commenting about this here, sadly that was not the only problem at the event. This one was much more personal. There was a Royal Peer at the event who I’ve known since I’ve moved to the Munich area. He was a member of our shire and he and his lady were friends with me and mine. So much so that  he stood as my Best Man at our wedding. They ended moving away to the Barony of Knights Crossing just before our wedding. We hadn’t seen them in a couple of years and we were really excited about seeing them again. During the time we hadn’t seen them, he was Knighted, and then they won Crown. Although there was a greeting (even with a hug) there was no real warmth in the greeting. More distant and forced as though they were only going through the motions. I had hoped to talk to him about a previous conversation we had had about Chivarly some years before. I didn’t even get a chance to bring it up. I asked my wife later how she felt about seeing our old friends again, thinking maybe it was just me. She also felt that our old friends treated us as though we weren’t worth their time. In my mind and heart at least if you are friends with someone it doesn’t matter if they were Knighted or not, or if they had won Crown or not. They are friends to be treated with warmth and respect. If they are friends that I have not seen for sometime of course I would find a way to sit down and talk with them about what is new in their lives or what they are currently doing, and most especially what has happened since we last saw each other.

My wife and I have pretty much decided that if this is what the SCA is about then maybe we don’t want to be a part of the SCA, at least not here in Germany. Here, the SCA is not the only game in town.

Interior Decoration From the 70’s gone MAD!

 My wife and I are planning on eventually buying a house, once we get enough money for such an undertaking. We were looking last night at a website that posts property for sale here in Germany. There were some nice houses and some that weren’t as nice but this one stood out and had us almost in tears when we saw the interior decoration.

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The outside of the house doesn’t look too bad, sadly the housing agent didn’t use this as the first picture instead they used this one.

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This is where we started laughing. We have referred to this as the Red Room and is a place where you could film 70’s style porn. The red satin wall paper really does it for me as well as the 70’s era television on a stick sitting in the corner. Now if you think that this is all and that the rest of the house is better you should just keep reading.

This next picture is the reverse of the last. I’m not quite sure what the lady on the left hand side standing in the window thinks she is doing. Escaping most likely. The arch really is something though I’m not quite sure why the rest of the wall is black. At least it isn’t as red as the rest of the room.

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The Red Room also has an annoying little corner that leads to … even more hideous red satin wall paper.

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Now if you think that is funny let us take a look at the rest of this color coordinated house. Following the Red Room we come across the Blue Room or Maybe it should be Sapphire I’m not sure but it is definitely blue.

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Follow the blue room with the Green Room. And what a disgusting shade of green too. I’m pretty sure that the previous owners were either 1. Very proud of how uniquely decorated their house was, 2. Extremely old, or 3. Blind

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The bathroom left me completely speechless. My wife giggling over my shoulder and I couldn’t say anything my mind was lost in the thought that someone would mix sand brown with black in such a terrible way. It kind of put me in the mind of a Hundertwasser house.

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This is probably the least eye injuring room in the house. The thing is I’m not sure what it was suppose to be used for.

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Here is an example of the entry way. The mixture of red brick and green was again really hard on my eyes. It kind of looks like a waiting room in some old doctors office or worse.

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The saving grace for this house (cough) is that it comes with its own little swimming pool.

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I’m not sure what to make of this house other than I would not spend 218,000 Euros on it. EEEK